What is an Alpha Male?

You don’t have to believe me, but I’m telling you the truth.

It’s not “just” coming from me, I’ve also learned these secrets from friends that are true Alpha Males- guys that live with a silent sense of confidence and a life that’s constantly remarkable.

Let’s not get ahead of ourselves though, I want to make sure we are clear on the definition. It’s not what you think. An alpha male is not a dirtbag, manipulative pick up guy, or the guy that gets all the girls. That’s such pea-sized thinking.

An alpha male is his own man. He can sit anywhere and be at home. In fact, even when he is uncomfortable, he is comfortable.

Wherever you stand, be the soul of that place- Rumi

I recently became an Alpha Male. Yea, I know “it’s pretentious to say that.” Stop reading if you don’t want to keep reading.

I noticed it happened at the point where I decided that my happiness is up to me; it’s not transient and it is based on this moment. And this one.

And this one too.

Every time you breathe you decide who you are going to be.

Jay Z is an alpha male. So is Lebron James. Steve Jobs was definitely one. Russel Simmons, Bill Clinton, Emerson, Andrew Carnegie? Yup. All alpha males.

But why? What makes them that way? They all have things in common.

What an Alpha Male Isn’t

1. Someone that preys on the lack of consciousness in others: A bully. A victimizer. A  manipulator. A charlatan. (also known as an insecure bastard.)
2. Someone that doesn’t need anyone.
3. A person that looks at women like numbers.
4. A dude that is Reckless for the sake of being reckless.
5. A chameleon that is constantly changing to receive comfortable approval.

What an Alpha Male Is

1. At peace wherever he is and doing anything. There is little or no attachment on the final outcome of things because an alpha male is happy regardless. You will never find a peace more powerful than your own. Meditate on it.
2. The type that needs people, but not in a needy way. He needs people because he is filled with love and joy at the action and thought of giving to people. Bathing them with love. Loving people so much for who they are that they want to be constantly around that love.
3. In love with his opposite polarity (whether it’s Feminine energy or Masculine energy). Dating and seduction becomes a thing of beauty, not a stressful game to play, consisting of constant headaches and pain. Dating different people is not about notches on his belt, it’s about experience. It’s about making someone happy by being unique. It’s about finding her beauty and holding it close.
4. A calculated risk taker. An alpha male does not wait for opportunity. He is ready. He seeks it in whatever form that he values. And he doesn’t stop even after he gets it.
5. An alpha male is consistently inconsistent. Consistently growing and changing because he wants to, not because he needs to. He seeks TO love, not to be loved.

All of the previous characteristics can be defined in one line.

It’s up to you to follow it.

I believe in you. I want you to have that joy that comes with existing. Honest.

Oh yea! I almost forgot that one line.

It’s…

…this:

An alpha male is happy existing from a constant point of awareness of the fact that he is happy as soon as he decides to be.

Decide today.

-Juda

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